Tim, Chris, and Moi reunite to share how Season 1 shaped their 10000 MINUTES, which episodes they are still unpacking, and what to expect in Season 2. Tangents included: Chris’ airplane pet peeve and the BOB GOFF of chocolate. Next week, Therapist and Season 1 favorite Carol Timmons joins us to walk through the five languages of apology!
The 10000 MINUTES Podcast is a weekly deep dive into the adventures and struggles of living out our daily lives WITH Jesus, not for Him. Also, we like to laugh. A lot. Maybe too much.. Ok, maybe too much.
Tim, Chris, and Moi reunite to share how Season 1 shaped their 10000 MINUTES, which episodes they are still unpacking, and what to expect in Season 2. Tangents included: Chris’ airplane pet peeve and the BOB GOFF of chocolate?
Next week, Therapist and Season 1 favorite Carol Timmons joins us to walk through the five languages of apology!
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Hey everybody. Its 10,000 minutes podcast. Pretty good at that. Hey everybody, its A1 podcast.
Nope. Okay, everybody. Season two has begun for the 10,000 minute podcast. I'm your host, Timothy Howard. Tims to my sweet write. Aww sweet ammo. Donis.
Hi everybody.
And so I left. We've got Christopher Cleveland.
Yo
Who just put out a new song. Let's go.
Recently. Yes. Fire. The songs are coming. Coming out. Yeah. And there'll be a record and it's, it's all happening. I love it.
So the stars do the stars go dim? They
Still I guess are, but I feel like they really blow up. I was thinking, are
They going dimmer everybody, just so you know, if you're not savvy to this, Chris has a band that's called Stars Go Dim. And I feel like, are they getting dimmer?
I feel like stars blow up, but I don't, I don't really know. Bands are dumb. Oh, that's right. And people like band. This one came up when I was like, what? 22? Mm-hmm.
We're doing great.
We're doing great. Season two
My more. You've been doing some music lately as well?
I have a little bit, yeah. I've been riding
A lot You guys. And for older people. Oh yeah. Older than us. I mean, I'm 26. Oh
My gosh. I misspoke a little earlier. Yeah, I'm like 20.
Math
Has never been your strong suit. No, no. Sorry guys.
Mo Moist streams her music. Yes, she does. Which is, and you, you're all thinking, oh, Spotify and that kinda thing. No, this is Twitch. And words that you don't, you think are cuss words, but
They're
Not. They feel like they need ointments.
For? We'll cut. Cut,
Right? Yeah. I think that was worse than my
She left. Yep. When Ormans come out
Ticks and twitches. I don't know what happens.
A memoir ticks any who? Twits.
Any who? It is good to be back together. It's
Good to be back.
It's so
Nice. And we have a really fun season coming up.
Math, not a strong suits one.
Are those areas gonna be Tim
I feel like it's
Finances and work. What does it look like for us to actually practice the way of Jesus? Join Jesus in our work relationships, health. Cause we're so good at hearing these messages on our weekend gatherings, which is great. We're hearing our little devotionals, but it's putting it into practice. That is the difference. So anyway, so then it'll be into work and finances, that kind of stuff. Experts in that.
Cultural issues.
Cultural issues. We're gonna dive into some of that,
Which is exciting. Cause I think it's easy to have opinions. So it'll be fun to have an expert kind of break down. Love it. The things that are happening every day.
Where we getting those experts. Just Facebook like random? Yeah. Yeah.
There's a group called Experts. Okay,
Great. We've just
Emailed all of them.
Yes, definitely.
Was that five or is that four?
That's four. That's four. That's four areas. Chris. Okay.
What is
Fifth? Thanks for asking Chris. Yeah,
Area
Fifth area is spiritual aiming
Has she been bragging at family
A little awkward in
Her Instagram
Bios. Like Timothy just wanted to let you know. I've seen the streaming numbers. Yeah.
Can you get me some soda pop? Like mom, I'm busy. I'm kind of the biggest one in your Yeah,
Yeah, definitely.
She's a little arrogant that she's always Well no, that is the antithesis of my mom.
Like how could I serve you? Can I serve you?
No, she's
The best. That's what she did when she was here. She served up some, she
Did serve up some stuff on grief. So I thought we could just talk a little bit about just a few of the areas,
Aware? I literally have not been able to get away from and literally have conversations about it all the time is blessing. Oh gosh. One of the first podcasts. I feel like series that we did. And man, this concept I never understood in life growing up, reading the Bible, doing all these things and I'd see these scriptures that were bless the Lord and all these things. And I always had this idea in my head of like, well what do I have to bring God
Is. Yeah.
I don't know how to do that other than Yeah, that got me.
I'm still thinking about how Carlos said he doesn't believe he has enemies. I think it'd be cool to do an episode on what even an enemy is. Is that our point of view of something that's attacking us or an actual evil
Carlos lives that. Yeah. So that was such a great conversation.
He's so good at you and I, I'm not against you
Well that's when Dallas Wood talks about if I could actually seek first the kingdom of God and not my own. Cuz ultimately when I'm being hurt or persecuted or I have an enemy, they're threatening my kingdom. So his thing Willard's thing is you could live an unoffended life if my focus was okay, it's not about me or my kingdom today. Yeah. It's actually about the kingdom of God. I mean that's kind of how Carlos is doing that.
Yep. Still trying to recover from Dave Gibbons. Oh,
Oh, Dave
The, that was 25. Everybody's 0 25 guy could
Probably, if he got an 800 number he can make some money.
Destroyed. I still catch myself. I think it's a thing I think about all the time. How am I currently hiding and not speaking up?
So explain what happened.
So Dave comes through to talk about work and the ways we could show up and be aligned with Jesus in our work. And he said some amazing things and it truly was like there's no separating work in church and Jesus and it's about being fully present and it's not really a gift to be intentional with people when you're talking to them.
Right. Yes. It's like a spiritual, it's not a spiritual gift. He was
Saying yes. It wasn't like certain people have this just, you might get it wrong, but listen and read body language, read how people are showing up. And then he just paused and came at me,
Dave Gibbons
And everybody to, at this point Dave is just, he's genius. I mean he's worked was
Also over zoom.
Over zoom. It was over
Zoom
And Mo had not mean you had not said a word. I mean the day you laughed maybe a few times. But that was it.
And I hate that I am an engram one because I dropped to my four and it's obvious that I am the most emo kid. I'm just gonna have dashboard confessional
On all day.
And I was like, man, I'm trying really hard to shake out of it, but I feel like the weakest one. I feel all the things. And then Dave just was in the most gentle way.
Obstacle. I'm gonna get a picture of Dave and print it
Great with the smallest sprint though. Cause that's how gentle he
Yeah, you can do it And you've gotta get real close to this squint a little bit.
So that episode and it's helped me to really listen to my friends, what are they saying right now? What is their body language telling me right now? It's just, it's kind of rocked my world. But I've been very
Amazing. And then he came and did that right
To you Did it to me too. Yeah. Yeah. A punk. He just came at me. One of the things I noticed over the last year, and this is just for me and hopefully our listeners felt this too and it's still happening every day. I was so formed by this last season and we just talked through off mic all of these episodes and all the guests we had on. I was like, oh my gosh. Yes, yes. 31 episodes. And as we're sitting here and we do these interviews, you don't realize how much of it sinks in. And then all of a sudden, all my conversations are about the things that we're talking about. And I feel like this has to be connected. I felt the most peace, I felt like the most self-confidence, the, I don't know, there's just been an ease, I think, to life doing this with you guys and gaining maybe some wisdom from some of these people. So it, it's been a really a pleasure to do this and I'm pumped about what we've got coming up. Yeah,
The side. Yeah, we had tears at the end. It was so good. But yeah, I think he has a specific gift in, I know he's practiced it a lot and I think he has a specific gift. But what I learned through that is because I've seen him do that a few times now. I want that gift so bad
Okay,
Here's what you're dealing with. I mean it's like voodoo. It was crazy. And yet
I have
My own gifts and I think that was actually really helpful for me to watch him do that with you and go, oh gosh, I want that gift so bad
Just how you show
Up and I think mine's good looks
Obviously.
I just think it's just walking into a room, right?
And when you're, it's good looking. We're gonna have experts to see so we'll get to ask them what they
Narcissist
Experts also way more video this season so people are gonna be able fact check you say fat check, fact check, fact fact.
All I heard people was fat check. And I went straight back to my childhood because I was husky
As I was.
And so basically
I remember sixth grade thinking, I gotta go out of this one day it's gonna come. Oh so tough. So
Tough. So we'll be fact checking, which is fact checking. Fact
Checking.
Jk.
Rough. Rough
I think I've had a different compassion and this sounds weird for people that are in the middle of hating themselves. So we had talked with Kelsey a lot about the suicide stuff and I think I just had, I've always obviously it's like what human doesn't have compassion for somebody in those places? But I think my compassion level just grew Yeah. To a different level. It was, yeah, I don't know what to say about that. I just, I've been more aware and when I think of, and I hear those stories cause I hear them all the time and then we've had them in our area, in our friend group and I think I've had more encouragement from listening to Kelsey's story.
She came and was just threw it all on the table, was so honest. And that episode was great. I felt like, I remember sitting there and you moi and her just kept going back and forth and I was like, I'd have something to say and then you guys would say it and I'm like, oh I'm just gonna sit back and enjoy this cuz it was so
Good. Yeah, it's hard to see someone else that you understand their pain.
And these women truly are, I was done with my life because I was so embarrassed with my situation and all the things it made me think of Kelsey. It made me think of the moments, been too scared to tell people how embarrassed I am in a situation that I'm in
Cuz we do wanna avoid situations. But the reality is that's just not always the case. So with Kelsey I'm like, okay, instead of walking with a friend, this is how you can avoid it next time.
Yeah. There were so many times I think during the season, at least for me and then I feel like I saw it a lot. They were the me too kind of things, which led to another thing that I felt like I saw so many times in this idea that I feel like kind of circled a lot of the podcast that we did was this idea of community and faith and life and all of these things. We all need to do this together
Do people, if they wanted to share some of these things with us, what would they do? I mean they can go to socials,
They can go to our socials on Instagram. We are at 10 k minutes and they can DM us as much as they want.
That means send a little response.
You direct the message.
But I just would love to hear other people's stories. Yes,
Yes.
Is there an email?
Yes. They can email us at, I think it's mail@tenthousandminutes.com. Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
We'll get back to you. But if not, we're on our socials for sure. So feel free to search 10,000 minutes and you'll find us.
So one of our last ones was on thanks. It was Thanksgiving and you kind of dropped
My bad
Guys. You dropped it that time. And I think the stuff that you talked about really harned back to all the past ones. So for me, pH, I've had been having a bunch of hospitalizations and all that crap lately and it sucked. And in all that, people are always asking, so how you doing? And I think I've normally, cuz it's kind of true, I'm like, well this sucks and I'm doing great and there's always the and but I'm okay
And I think was throughout our whole season,
What do you feel has come out of that?
Look at you?
Sorry,
Just
Need to know for myself
As well.
Said? Yeah. Sitting longer periods of time in your grief.
Yeah. That's not a normal thing for me to do.
What's come out of you sitting in your grief?
Probably more awareness of it.
When we left, I was tired and she's like, you're kind of always on the clock with your cousins. And I was like, no, that's like when I'm my most self. She's like, yeah, but you're on the clock. It wears you out.
Yeah. It's probably, I don't know if it's for other people. It's been just so internal for me,
That's great, Tim. Yeah, it's awful, the things that you've had to go through, but it's awesome that you're honoring reality. This is my present day, this is what has my attention today. So I'm gonna pay attention to it.
Yeah. I mean, speaking of what has my attention, I mean, that'll be one of the questions and that is one of the main questions we've basically asked all last season
Right?
At work. What's stealing your attention? So I'm really excited about that. And
Maybe it's not stealing. What is it saying?
Yeah, what's it revealing? What's your attention revealing? It's good.
There's an author who's like, pain's not the enemy, it's just the messenger. Sometimes there are things showing you something about you. Yeah. Yeah.
So hey people, if you have people that you want us to interview, you think this person would be great. Let us know who those people are. A
Yes.
Two, if you have a new headband for Chris
I'm gel. Maybe I'll wear one next week. We should totally switch on
A
Headband. I'm just gonna let you know right now. I'm not doing it. I think you
Look super cute.
I tried to do it one on stream and I was like, never again. It didn't work. It didn't work. You
Know
What Twitch you got, you got Twitch. The
Chat was nice, but I was like, all of you are against me. I'm never doing this again.
Let's dive into a few 10,000
Thoughts. Let's go. Let's
Go. Okay, so for you nerds. Nineties go.
Nineties,
Nineties, nineties. Nineties. Like the years.
Yes. Or if you're nineties, 90 year 90 years old.
Yeah.
I wanna get there.
I'm already seeing different angles and I love it. Okay.
I spent a decade in it.
How do I beat that? Yeah, that's true. I also, you
Did, were you born in the
Nineties? Oh my goodness. Yeah. I was born in the eighties. Okay.
80 what? 89.
89. Gosh,
My,
But I made the cut. Okay. You didn't make the
Cut. Is that I was in another meeting last week and someone was like, yeah, that happened in 96. I weren't born then. I was like, I
Six, seven years old. My Hello.
Yeah.
No, I do feel like you're younger for some reason
Than
It's, I told them it was the lotions and the lack of growth.
It's like a joyful spirit. I'm gonna,
You recommend Ole, you know, it's both of those things together.
Yeah, I do too. Let's
Go.
Who do, do people even do that anymore?
I think they're really designer now and costs like a thousand dollars.
Oh my gosh. Mine is like 150 and I was dying back then.
Justin's
Or
Something.
I don't even know. So my son wore my Letterman jacket. It is for fifties, but it says 94 on the shoulder. Oh. Cause that was the year I was born. So
That's the year you put on the Letterman jacket?
Yeah. Yeah. A favorite show ever.
Favorite show ever.
One of 'em go.
Okay. My current favorite show is School of Chocolate. Have you guys seen that
Show? Yes. My son's obsessed with it. That guy makes the craziest things.
My goodness. Okay. But his heart, Chris
Chocolate. That's true with chocolate
Like, and he's also making ridiculous things out of chocolate.
No crazy things. Yeah.
Sounds like the Bob Goff of chocolate making a,
It's amazing. He might be French or something. He's got some sort of accent. So
I'm on a, I'm in a server on him on our,
But she just said she's on a server on Discord. Here
We go. Here we go. Yes. That I need to just make a
Totally. Just a So back to the server. Back
To the
Server. Twitch.
A group of us cowork together on one stage and watch it.
Obviously you cowork and it's Oh, you're, you're working. Yeah.
You're watching. Everybody's muted. But we watch it and everyone's working on their own stuff. But we love this show and it's so in, it's inspirational. That's good. But anyways, that's my current fa I recommend again not sponsored yet by Netflix.
So I think mine's a rest of development. I just can't, can't get around it. It's so good.
I like it.
It's in my hometown. It's like he's so funny and it's so inappropriate and so good.
We just watched the Curb Your Enthusiasm, whole series. So good. And now I only see my life through the lens of Lady David
Okay, last one. Ooh, that's a cool question. But we won't do it. We'll just do this. Pet peeves. Go. I
Have many.
And by the way, before we go, every time I'm at Costco, or anytime anybody talks about chewies, the little gummy things, not gummies, California gummies, but different the things you're addicted to.
Fruit
Snack. Fruit snack. I'm not trying to point you out.
Call me out. I've had a fruit guys. I've had a fruit snack in over a month.
Slow
Crap. Cold Turkey, baby. Cold freaking Turkey
Buddy. Say hi, my name's
Chris. Hey, my name is Chris and I am addicted to Welchs fruit snacks.
But you're clean for a
Month. Clean for, yeah. Like six weeks. Cause they're
Outta stock.
No, no, they're in the house. Oh,
Oh, oh, you just got
I have, yeah. It's, it's a thing.
P Well, power
Picked what's
Happening. An addiction
To gummy bears. Did you did
Congrats. Thank you so much.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. To gummy bears or to chewy, what are
They called? No gummy
Bears. Fruit. Fruit snacks.
The fruit snacks. No, gummy bears. Gummy bears. But anyways, we, we've
Traded the ASBOs or
Is that the Yes. And then they also have the target starts with an A.
Oh, I don't know what color bag are
They? It's white. It's got a red.
They like the target brand.
I don't know, but could be super yummy. Anyways, but yeah. At congrats.
Thanks On me Clean for
Okay. Pet peeves.
I have many, but I would say it's also on me, I, a pet peeve of mine is when people are easily annoyed. Oh wow. And it's also for me as well, I think being annoyed is a waste of energy and unnecessary and a lack of slowing down. And it makes me so angry. So someone in line and is annoyed that the line isn't moving slow. Okay, Lee? Yeah. No, everyone else is also in this line. And I get so annoyed. Someone who gets easily annoyed that, I don't know, it could be anything. They took five minutes extra to bring out the food. You're fine.
Yeah. Yeah. That
Stuff gets
Under my skin. So I'm curious of what that reveals in you about you. Oh, for sure. I,
I'm okay. You wanna go there? Yeah. Okay. I grew up feeling my things were lesser than the things my mom was going through. Yeah.
Okay. Totally. So for me it's all ice chewing and any kind of chewing and their reasons for that. But I, it's like it could not be more painful to my soul.
You've never chewed fruit snacks in here? No.
No. I have gum all day
Every day. But gum, gum's fine. Okay. I can kind of deal with that. Unless you're like chomp, chomp guy, then I'm angry. But if it's crunch of carrots
And things,
I kind of have dry Hess. My
Son was doing that the other day. I had to make 'em leave.
Yeah. I'm scarring my kids. I'm like, Hey, you know what, can you not eat your lunch? Please? Can you shut up? Cuz you're ugly right now. Just
So ASMR is out.
But I think drama. Drama really. So a lot with yours when somebody, somebody's over dramatic about something that does not need to be.
Yes. Did you guys see the meme the other day of the woman trying to rent a yacht?
Uhuh?
Yes. That's my, she's talking to this girl and she's like, I want to talk to the manager. And this girl literally does the stair step thing behind the counter and goes down, then pops back up and says, hi, how can I help you?
He's
Losing here. But it's like, oh, it so good. It's
That. Any kind of exaggerated response. Yeah. Yeah. I'm like, you took up the whole space. Yeah.
About you now. Drama was not allowed in my house. Really? Oh. So Hillary just kind of enlightened me about that. Cause I'm like so pissed about one, some drama that went out in my house. I'm like, oh my gosh, this is not happening. There's no need to go to this place. And so I cut it off. Anger or drama. I just cut it right
Off.
And I don't think that was a really welcomed thing in my house. Or maybe it was and I didn't feel like it was. Yeah. Yeah. But
Interesting. Okay. I've got two people on airplanes who stand up as soon as, oh my God. Stop
Man. Even
So both ways. Getting on the plane. If you're a southwest person and you're standing in your A 32, 10 minutes before the plane, why you have a mortal? What are you doing? And then we're all getting off the plate. You don't need to get your bag right now. Yeah. Just stay seated. Yeah. You know what I mean? And then I just realized this when you said the chewing thing, I realized I have one that I've never said out loud, but it's people, you guys are gonna see
This now. Ball guys. He's
Dodging
Contact. I'm just like right now, not,
I don't think he do this. I haven't noticed it. People who,
It sounds like that. Okay.
People, when you are talking mouth, the words that you're saying,
Hey,
What? So yes, I know what you're talking about. They're like watching you and listening to you and then mimicking the words coming out of your mouth. I, I think it's involuntary. You've both seen it. Yes. And it's like the mouth moves just a little, little bit. No, no, no, I'm just kidding. And then I'm like, I'm just looking at your mouth.
I
Cry.
Gimme an example of
How that happens. I'm just saying conversation. You just did it. And your, I'm talking and then your mouth is moving with my mouth.
But I'm trying to do it to see what this does for me as the listener. Am I trying to make you feel like I'm listening
To you? I think you trying. I don't even think it, I think you're just doing it. You're internalizing it.
Yeah. But I think you're right. I don't think they know it. They don't know because I,
So I don't wanna blame 'em for it.
I mentioned it too much.
No, I feel like you're doing great.
Did I was like, how'd that go? You
Shape the words you're either about to say or someone is saying and she's like, no I don't. And ever since then, she'll randomly text me. It's been 10 years. I caught myself mumbling words. I'm like, yes, I know. Cause I don't know why. But you
Do this, we need to have an expert on just about this. Yeah.
Well, Eli's dumber, his whole, I mean we had the brain stuff. So I want, maybe there's some kind of brain.
We're gonna dive deep into it. What is, I wanna get to the bottom of word
It's true. Oh boy. Here we go. Season two. It's just gonna be,
It's gonna be right. Why has your attention
Okay, enough Dery for one day.
It's good to be back. It's good to be back. I don't want it to end.
Okay, next. Okay. So guys, we will see you, listen to you. You'll hear us. But we would love to hear from you as well. So we are trying to figure out how do we make this more of a community. Maybe it's Twitch.
Maybe it's Twitch. We're definitely active on our Instagram. You will catch us. Go live every once in a while, please.
We're live more on Fridays. Yeah. That's kind of one of the things we wanna do and just hear from you of things you're learning, struggling with people that you admire, voices that you're hearing curiosities. Yeah. So thank you. Thanks for supporting 10,000 minutes.